definiendum | $ \omega_{\mathcal N}$ |
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As is common, I'll also use the symbol $\mathbb N$ to denote the set theoretic object $\omega_{\mathcal N}$.
This is probably the most straightforward way to set up a countably infinite set.
The first requirement says that all elements of $\omega_{\mathcal N}$ are either $\emptyset$ or a successor of another set. The second guaranties that there are no superfluous sets in $\omega_{\mathcal N}$, apart from the ones which are e.g. required to making $\omega_{\mathcal N}$ an ordinal. Put together the axiom says that $\omega_{\mathcal N}$ contains $\emptyset$ and for each established element $m$, it also inductively contains all successors ${\mathrm{succ}}\ m\equiv m\cup\{m\}$.
To model the natural numbers, one can make the following identifications:
Using our common language conception of natural numbers we can say: Each number contains the numbers which are less than itself, i.e. $n$ is $\{0,1,2,3,4,\dots,n-1\}$. Being an ordinal, we can model the order relation of the natural numbers via set inclusion $k<n\equiv k\in n$. This also gives us the familiar ordinal order.